Decoding A Guys Language

So, you just dated a hunk of a guy whom you find very attractive and very intellectually stimulating. He was such a gentleman, and he treated you well. Hes got all the attributes youre looking for in a lifelong partner, and you want him and you want him bad. But as with everything else associated with the initial phase of the dating game, uncertainties abound. You dont know if he could reciprocate the level of interest you have for him. All you have are thoughts of him, as well as the memories of the date that was.

What you would do for some piece of mind, eh? Luckily, the signs you need are all there, encrypted in some form or another, waiting to be decoded. The certainty youre looking for can be found in these signs, and all you have to do is to take some time to study them, and muster enough courage to accept what may not be favorable for your desires. But who knows, right? He might be into you after all.

So, what are these signs, and how, exactly, could you decode them?

* He said that hell call but he didnt. This may go either way. He may be buying his time so that hell give you the impression that hes not interested, which would heighten the surprise when he does reveal his true feelings for you. Or he may not be interested with you. Prepare yourself for any eventuality.

* He called as soon as he got home. Rejoice, girl! Youve got a connection! Play your cards right, and hes in the bag!

* He called even before he could get home. Wow! You dont have to play your cards right this time. Hes very much into you, and he cant wait to see you again. The ball is in your court now. It will all depend on how long or how fast you would allow the courting process to take.

* He talked about himself most of the time during dinner. Again, this may go either way. He may be a natural egomaniac who can think of nothing else but himself. Or he may be trying to impress you with what he believes are his better qualities. Or he finds you interesting, but he sees you as someone who would spare some time for his grand tales of personal accomplishments.

* He talked about himself most of the time during dinner, even when youre about to share your thoughts with him. Uh-oh. This is a definite danger sign. You have a certain megalomaniac at hand. Stay away as early as possible.

* He said something similar to youre a good friend. Its a euphemism for sorry, I just cant see you and me together. Take a hint and abandon all hopes. Hes not just into you, but hes too polite not to say it straight to your face.

* He said something similar to youre like a sister to me. Same as above, albeit in a friendlier, more affectionate language.

* He didnt offer to take you home. Forget it. The date was tortuous for him, and hes happy its over and done with.

* He kept taking those bathroom breaks. This could go in either of three ways. First, he may be married or is otherwise committed, hence hes been excusing himself to place a call to his wife or girl. Second, he may be too bored with your company and he preferred pacing around in between your conversations. Or third, he must be suffering from a severe case of diarrhea.

The signs you need are right in front of you. Sometimes, though, they may be too much to bear that we choose not to notice them. Dont allow yourself to feel depressed in the event that hes not interested with you. There are a lot of guys out there. Failing to win his heart only means that someone better is meant for you.

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